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Preparing Your Horse For The Real World

Preparing Your Horse For The Real World

By Bob Pruitt · Training

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Preparing Your Horse For The Real World

Richard Winters

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I recently spent two weeks at the National Reined Cow Horse Association World Championship Snaffle Bit Futurity. With hundreds of horses entered, to compete, the warm-up pens were pretty busy. It was not unusual to have forty or fifty horses warming up in the same arena. Some horses loping to the left and some loping to the right, with others galloping in straight lines from one end of the arena to the other. At any given time there would be a diverse mixture of mares, stallions and geldings. Also, many of the horses were only two and three years of age. How does all this work without collisions, wrecks or dangerous situations? That's what I would like to address in this article.

The horses at the show were not necessarily unique and I don't believe this scenario should be out of the ordinary. But for many people , riding in a situation like this would be in the least, intimidating. And at worst dangerous. It doesn't have to be this way. However, it does take prior preparation for your horse and leadership on your part.

Many stables have strict rules about riding in the arena with other riders. Such as who can be on the rail at any given time. What direction everyone is going and at what speed you will travel. All of this is mandated by rules and regulations. Guidelines and respect for other riders is important, especially when in a mixed group of varied skill levels. However, don't let this become an excuse for you and your horse to be less than confident and controlled regardless of the situation you find yourself.

At first my horse is extremely intimidated by other horses approaching quickly.

Many years ago I was riding with the famed reined cow horse trainer Ted Robinson at his home place. While I was loping around the arena I looked up and quickly realized that I had just cut-off Ted who was loping in the opposite direction. "Oh, I'm sorry Ted!" I said apologetically. He replied, "That’s alright. How else is he going to get broke? Ted understood that his young horse needed to gain this experience now so that he would have confidence later in the many situations that he would find himself.

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Photos 1 and 2- At first my horse is extremely intimidated by other horses approaching quickly.

You and some willing friends can begin to help your horses gain more confidence by working together in a creative manner and in a controlled environment. By communicating with each other about what type of scenarios you are trying to create, everyone can be on the same page and stay safe and controlled. Every horse is different. Some horses are insecure and fractious while others are laid-back and confident. Set up scenarios that will help each horse make progress with their specific issues.

I'm helping my horse relax with a little help from my friends.

I’m helping my horse relax with a little help from my friends.

If your horse is intimidated with other horses coming straight towards him, have your friends begin at a slower speed and at a safe distance and then begin to increase the speed and narrow the space as your horse gains more confidence. If your horse is more worried about horses coming up from behind, do the same type of exercise with your friends approaching from the rear.

If your horse is worried about his own personal space, spend some time with your friends trotting circles around each other and chasing each other’s tail. Always start at a safe distance and then begin to ride closer. You can also pretend like you are barrel racing or pole bending and use other riders as a substitute for the barrel or pole. This works well if the stationary horse has just been working quite a bit and is ready to catch his breath. After you have trotted or loped around your friends in a lot of different patterns, you can switch and allow your horse to catch his breath while your friends travel around you.

Now my horse is feeling more confident with horses approaching at different speed.

Now my horse is feeling more confident with horses approaching at different speed.

Begin to add more speed to these games as your horse builds confidence. Horses often become more excited when they see other horses approaching at faster speeds. If you do not try to re-create some of these scenarios on your own terms, it will come back to bite you later on.

Use your imagination and think of creative ways to better prepare your horse for large group settings. You do not have to be the victim in a situation that you and your horse are not prepared for. Don't wait to be in the warm up pen at a big horse show or out on a trail ride with a huge group of riders to find out how your horse will handle all of the activity. Being pro-active in a situation that you can control will allow you to safely and confidently enjoy your horse when you are out in the real world.

Richard Winters Horsemanship WintersRanch.com

Key Article Takeaways
  • Per Richard Winters: 50 horses sharing a warm-up arena works because of preparation, not magic.
  • Real-world riding requires horses comfortable around mares, stallions, geldings, and varied skill levels.
  • Stable rules and rail etiquette help, but they can't substitute for solid horse preparation.
  • Mixed-traffic confidence is built one exposure at a time, starting with controlled environments.
  • Leadership on the ground translates to leadership in the saddle when chaos arrives.
Questions readers commonly ask:
How can 50 horses share an arena without wrecks?

Per Richard Winters: each horse has been prepared for the chaos before he ever entered it. Horses comfortable with mares, stallions, geldings, and varied speeds simply do their job while others do theirs. The chaos isn't chaos to a prepared horse—it's just background.

Why isn't "good arena rules" enough?

Per Richard Winters: rules cover most predictable situations, but every arena eventually produces something the rules didn't anticipate. The unprepared horse panics; the prepared horse handles it. Rules are a baseline; preparation is the safety net.

How do I prepare my horse for a busy arena?

Per Richard Winters: gradual exposure—start in a less-busy arena, build up to medium traffic, then full warm-up density. Pair sessions with calm, experienced horses so your horse learns from theirs. Each successful exposure makes the next one easier.

What if my horse gets aggressive in mixed-traffic settings?

Per Richard Winters: that's a foundation issue. Re-establish responsiveness on the ground first, then re-introduce arena traffic at low density. Aggressive horses usually started with handlers who let small bad behavior become big bad behavior.

Should I avoid mixed-gender arenas?

Per Richard Winters: only if your horse can't handle them. Most professional environments are mixed—stallions, mares, geldings—and your horse will encounter them in clinics, shows, and trail rides. Building comfort with mixed traffic is part of finishing a horse, not optional.

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